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Your words always move me Ashutosh! I get completely engrossed. I have had this thought of moving abroad for "better opportunities". But I know I will be lonely and miserable. I cannot imagine a life where i am simply working to survive and pay my bills and losing sight of what I really care about. So thank you for sharing this

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Thanks Moloya! Isn’t it the case most of the time, that when we are here, we want to be there and when we reach there, we miss here. I guess what helped me was finding that wherever I was was the most happy place to be in. Other things didn’t matter.

I know many like the life in the West. I don’t detest it. I loved my time there but I chose the most crazy things and went and worked on the weirdest jobs that no other Indian would do - that made me understand the society and its people. That no matter where you go people are people - just like us. We just have to find the place that suits us and helps us to live a life with purpose. For me it was my village - connecting with my roots. Its a western dream that we were all intoxicated with - turned out that it was just as miserable as living in an urban city in India. Although this might be totally different for someone else!

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Beautiful! This article resonated so much that I feel compelled to say this: Me coming across this article here, was the Universe's way of telling me that my current thoughts and anxiety are completely normal and that I just need to stop controlling things and go for it! Thanks a lot, Ashutosh!!

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Have a good ride my friend!

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Sorry but Amazon says your book is not available on Kindle or paperback.

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Hi Bob, here’s a link to buy my book through my website. www.ashutoshjoshi.in

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Thanks, but I was after a Kindle version. I'm a long way from India, though I've been there many times.

https://luzenz.substack.com/p/stone-hut-and-waterwheel

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Maybe this link works.. http://a.co/d/5CVadfq

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Yes it does! Thank you. That link on your page goes to Amazon.in and says the book is not available.

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Thanks for noticing that Bob. I’ll make the changes..

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I got the Kindle copy! Read it tonight. Thanks

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